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Monday, May 30, 2022

My Trip to the ER

 I had my 2nd hip replacement surgery last Monday - May 23rd. Everything seemed to be going well...until it wasn't. I was able to go home the same day as the surgery like I did last time, but by Wednesday, I started feeling very fatigued, which is normal after surgery. so I didn't think anything of it until Thursday when my symptoms got worse. By then , I was experiencing low oxygen levels, racing pulse, fatigue, headache, nausea, loss of appetite, and lightheadedness. We called my surgeon's office, but he was in surgery and was supposed to contact us once surgery was over. However, the doctor never called back. By Friday morning, my symptoms had worsened to the point that it took too much effort to even talk or get out of bed. Alan decided that I needed to go to the ER to get checked out. I didn't think I could even make it to the car, but somehow I managed. Once at the ER, several tests were taken including blood work, X-Ray, and CT Scan. It was the CT scan that revealed that I had blood clots in my lung. No wonder I had no energy.

After my dad had one of his hip replacement surgeries in December 1991, he also got a blood clot in his lung. He was rushed to the ER and ended up in the ICU on life support. We didn't know whether he was going to make it or not. It was really touch and go for a while, but finally he turned the corner and started improving so the ventilator could be removed. We considered it a true miracle that he didn't die. 

As you can imagine, when I found out I had a blood clot, I was very concerned. However, my clot is not in the upper lobes like Dad's was, which is a more threatening situation.

Because of my clot, I was admitted into the hospital for treatment and observation. Thankfully, I only had to stay one night. I was home by 4:00 PM on Saturday. However, they wouldn't let me go home without putting me on oxygen and blood thinners. Whenever I am without oxygen, my levels start to drop. My primary care physician will monitor my oxygen levels until he feels I can do ok without oxygen. I will be on the blood thinners for a few months.

[Me leaving the hospital after my 2nd surgery]


[Mom on oxygen during the last few months of her life while she battled lung cancer.]



[Me on oxygen today]



I'm healing from my surgery and getting around pretty well on my newest hip. By next week, I should be able to trade my walker in for a cane. Oh, happy day!




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UPDATE 6/6/22

Last Friday, June 3, 2022, I had what I thought was a very good day as far as my hip recovery goes. I was getting around so well and had very little pain. However, I had a physical therapy evaluation at my home. During that visit, the therapist had me do some mild exercises to test my mobility and everything checked out ok. In fact, he said I could do things that most patients at this stage of a hip replacement can't do.

About 4 hours later, I started having a lot of pain in my leg - more than usual. The pain continued to get worse as the evening progressed and by about 8:30 I was in so much pain that I couldn't stand it. I was in tears and knew my pain level was a "10" out of 10. No matter what position my leg was in, it was extremely painful. I've never felt that much pain before except for when I was in labor. 

Finally, we decided to try to reach my general physicians office even though it was after hours. After explaining what was going on to the doctor on call, he said to immediately go to the ER because I could have an infection in my hip and that would not be good.

I was already in my pajamas and I didn't feel like I could stand the painful transition back into my clothing, so Alan grabbed my robe for me and off we went to the ER. Once there, we did a lot of waiting. It was pretty busy that night and my pain kept increasing as I waited. Finally, after about an hour, I was able to get an I.V. so they could administer me some morphine for the pain. It took two doses before I was out of pain enough to transition from the gurney to the x-ray table to get the x-rays taken.

The x-rays looked good and I didn't have an infection. We aren't sure what caused me so much pain. I think its possible that the session with the physical therapist may have disrupted a muscle or nerve or something. I spoke with Neal on the phone yesterday and he thinks it was probably caused by an inflamed nerve. That would explain why it hurt so much, I guess. 

I've been doing a better job of staying on top of my pain meds because I don't want to experience a "10" ever again in my lifetime. For two days, I've been trying to catch up to where I was before this episode on Friday. I think maybe this set-back has cost me about a week of recovery, but I hope not.

Friday, May 20, 2022

The Blessing

 On May 6th, Alan and I arrived at Cheryl's house in Ladera Ranch, California so we could attend the baby blessing that weekend of our newest granddaughter, Wesley Lois Stronk. The blessing didn't take place until that Sunday - May 8th - which also happened to be Mother's Day.

Parker is very shy about giving blessings in public, so they got permission to perform the blessing at Parker's brother Ryan's home. Parker's whole family was in attendance. Alan and I represented the Stott family. 

It was a beautiful spring day, so a decision was made to give her the blessing in Ryan's  beautiful back yard, forgetting about the highway that runs at the back of their house. However, even with the occasional noise of a car or motorcycle whizzing past, the blessing took place and Parker gave Wesley a beautiful blessing.

Wesley has already been such a joy to our family. There is something special about holding this small infant in your arms, knowing that she has recently left her heavenly home. In her new home on earth, she brings peace and joy to her family and the light of God shines in her eyes.

We took pictures after the blessing. Here are a few of them:


(Our beautiful granddaughter Wesley Lois Stronk)


(Got to have at least one spit-up shot, right?)


(Cheryl, Parker, and baby Wesley)


(Everyone who was in attendance - except for the member of their bishopric who witnessed the blessing)


(The boys. Those wearing suits participated in the blessing. From left to right: Ryan Baldwin, Ryan Stronk, Bruce Stronk, Parker holding Wesley, Bro. Albright, Alan, the two boys are Roman and Kessler Stronk)


(The women in attendance left to right: Karla Stronk, Jazz Stronk, Me, Cheryl, baby Wesley, and Sarah Baldwin)


(Cheryl, Wesley, Kessler, and Parker)

We really enjoy every chance we get to hang out with Parker's family. They are fun to be around and Jazz is a good hostess. We were able to share two meals with them, including a nice Mother's Day meal.

It is always such a wonderful experience to see the Priesthood in action. It is only through the power of the Holy Melchizedek Priesthood that these baby blessings can occur. As part of the blessing, she was given the name that will be on the official records of the church - Wesley Lois Stronk. 

I will forever be thankful for the priesthood my father held and used in our home growing up. I'm equally thankful for the priesthood my dear husband holds and has used in behalf of our family throughout our marriage. Since having the priesthood in my home since my birth has been such a blessing to me, I feel sorry for those who do not have that blessings in their home. However, a priesthood blessing is available to anyone who requests one. That, to me, is a great gift. God loves all His children and wants to bless them in any way He can.

Sunday, May 1, 2022

Get A Move On, Time's A Tickin'!

 Today is Fast Sunday, hence Sacrament Meeting was fast & testimony meeting. Whenever there is a temporary pause in the bearing of testimonies like there was today in our Ward, my Mom's words always pop into my mind. I can hear her saying "get a move on, time's a tickin'!" During that temporary pause today, I started pondering on Mom's words, and realized that, yes, time is a tickin' for all of us with regard to living up to our potential and becoming the type of person we need to become in order to qualify to live in the presence of God after our life here on earth is complete. As the scriptures say, now is the time for men to prepare to meet God. None of us knows when our last day on earth will be. We always need to be prepared for that event.

If I had born my testimony today, I would have included something like this after mentioning my mom's saying:

Yes, time's a tickin' for repenting of our sins

Time's a tickin' for becoming more Christ-like in our thoughts and actions

Time's a tickin' for participating in the gathering of Zion

Time's a tickin' for mending broken hearts and broken family relationships

Time's a tickin' for loving more and feeling less sorry for ourselves

Time's a tickin' for redeeming the dead through temple work

Time's a tickin' for remembering and living up to our covenants and staying on the covenant path.

Time's a tickin' for preparing the world for the 2nd coming of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

This list could go on and on, but the point with this post is that my Mom was right. Time is a tickin'! Time is going fast. The Savior will be here before we know it and, hopefully, we can be prepared spiritually to meet Him when he arrives.


This is a picture of my Mom while on oxygen shortly before she passed away from lung cancer. She was such a wonderful mother. I miss her like crazy. She passed away 28 years ago next month. Next Sunday is Mother's Day. I will truly be thinking of her on that day.