On Friday morning, October 14th, I received a very sad text from Neal that their precious daughter, Alisa, passed away sometime during the night. He said that she most likely had a seizure complicated by her diabetes and various other health concern, including COVID. Her obituary, however, reads "Alisa Burton Curtis of Jensen, Utah, passed away on Friday, October 14, 2022 due to complications with Type 1 Diabetes and Covid." Alisa was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes as a child and has had to struggle her whole life with staying on top of her blood sugar levels. I'm glad she is free from all of her earthly health struggles.
From what we heard from Neal, Alisa had contracted covid about 5 days before her passing, but prior to that, for the past little while, her health had been getting weaker and weaker. It affected her walking and she was having difficulty swallowing and was getting pretty frail. On Thursday evening, her husband and their two youngest sons put her to bed and then they left and slept in a different room. At about 5 a.m., Abe got up to check on her and found her on the floor deceased. Neal thinks she probably got up and tried to walk and collapsed on the floor.
Alisa was 50 years old and is a wife to Abraham Curtis and a mother to three sons - Abe Neal - 19, Damon - 15, and Drayden - 13. Their oldest son, Abe Neal, is currently serving a mission in Denmark. He will return home in about 10 months. How sad it must have been for Elder Curtis to lose his mother while serving a mission. My father lost his father while serving his mission in the Northwest States mission. He opted to stay on his mission and not return home for the funeral. Luckily, Abe was able to view and participate in the services through Zoom.
I love what was written about her in her obituary. Here is just a portion of it.
"She was born on May 13, 1972 in Payson, Utah to Neal and Lynda Burton.... Alisa came with a heart full of spiritual gifts. She was a gentle angel in tune to other's needs especially those of the elderly or lonely and often reached out in friendship and love.... Alisa was born with the Savior's countenance and image shining in her eyes. She naturally reflected His love and followed Him by reading her scriptures and praying to know more about Him. She is a student of truth and the Spirit. She is our hero; one of the noble and great spirits God talked about in the book of Abraham."
I can't say I knew Alisa well. She was the second of my 35 nieces and nephews to be born on my side of the family. I have another 15 nieces & nephews on Alan's side of the family. It is difficult to stay on top of the comings and goings of each of them. However, I do remember well the time Jane and I flew to California to watch Melanie and Alisa when Lynda was about to give birth to Jonathan. Melanie was almost 5 so Alisa would have been 3. They were such cute little girls and it was fun to be their aunt. They have both held a very special place in my heart. With us living in California and Alisa living in Utah, we didn't get to see each other much - only on special occasions.
Although Alisa will be missed by all who knew her, I'm very happy for her to have graduated from this mortal existence and I know that she is in a happier place right now. She is the first of my nieces or nephews to pass away. My heart grieves, but grieving is part of losing someone.
I found these pictures of Alisa yesterday. Memories! [photo quality sure wasn't good back then!]
Alisa, Melanie, and Jeni on the rocking horse. Gayle and Jane in the background
Melanie and Alisa
Alisa is on Lynda's lap
Cousins - Jeni & Alisa, born 2 months apart
Grandpa, Melanie, and Alisa
Melanie shared this most recent picture of Alisa, taken just a couple of weeks before her passing. Alisa was at her parents home watching a BYU football game with some family members.
R.I.P Alisa - Until we meet again! I love you!